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The Baby Show London ExCel

On Friday my wife, daughter and I made our way up to London’s Excel Exhibition Centre for The Baby Show. This was to be our third visit in a row to The Baby Show having been to the previous the previous Excel show a year ago just before my wife’s 20 week scan and more recently at Olympia. Each visit has been very different from the last. For our first experience of The Baby Show we…
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The Baby Show London Olympia 1st time dad visit

My first visit to the Baby Show was at London’s Excel Exhibition Centre back in February. Back then I was wearing my London Mums blogging hat and my expectant father hat. Yesterday I visited the Baby Show at Kensington Olympia still with my blogging hat on but I was also pushing a SilverCross pram and a three and a half month old (and my wife  Emma who if the truth be told was actually the…
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Is breastfeeding really best for your baby?

I know this article title might at first seem controversial and provocative but I must assure you that my only intention was to get your attention and to question things that are presented to us as facts. It is a fact (perhaps) that 40% of all facts only have a 10 year shelf life so it amazes me that people are surprised when they cease to be. Well actually the declassification of Pluto threw me…
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Should paternity leave be extended to 6 weeks?

Seven weeks ago today my wife and I were celebrating the birth of our daughter Elodiedh. This morning I got up at around 6:30am made my daughter a bottle and myself a cup of tea before we both sat down to watch BBC breakfast news. This has been our morning routine for the past few weeks and although my wife despairs at some of the outfits I put our daughter in whilst she sleeps she does appreciate…
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Born in 60 seconds - our birth story

“There are always exceptions to the rule, it just so happens that you were one of those exceptions.” This is my final Symapthy Pains article because as the title suggests I am now, for the first time, a father. I always wanted to finish this series with the birth story as every single one I’ve heard before is different and I figured ours would be too. What I wasn’t…
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Better in than out - 10 reasons why it's better to have a late baby

So my wife is in her 4th week of maternity leave and there’s no sign of baby. She’s got her favourite daytime TV shows, she’s joined a number of ridiculous Facebook groups where mums try and sell used junk they brought off ebay and she’s even started doing crosswords. On Sunday the first two of our NCT group gave birth and WhatsApp started buzzing with pictures and birth…
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Trying to be less sweary | Sympathy Pains

Oh sh***********t, Emma’s been on maternity leave for two weeks now which means only one thing, this baby is coming soon! The NCT classes are done, the nursery has been decorated and the hospital bag was packed weeks ago. Now all I have to worry about is being supportive through the whole birthing thing and try to rise a well adjusted child for the next couple of decades. That of course is…
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Out of office automatic reply | Sympathy Pains

This is an out of office automated reply As I mentioned weeks ago I’ll be going on maternity leave from 13th June 2014 so please send all your enquires to the main accounts email address. This email account will not be monitored as everyone will be far too busy working out how on earth they are going to cope without me for a whole year. Yes that’s right, I’m going to take a…
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Full term | Sympathy Pains

I got a nice email from The Baby Centre last week which read At the end of this week, you’re going to reach an important pregnancy milestone: your baby will be considered full-term. That means you could give birth any day now. Walking may become increasingly uncomfortable. Some mums-to-be say it feels as if their baby is going to fall out!  Holly crap. Any. Day. Now. Well i like to think…
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The breastfeeding talk - With my Mum

Last week I popped round my mum’s house for a cup of tea. The plan was to say hello, give her a bump update and lay down the ground rules for birth and baby visitation. In our NCT class last Tuesday we had two visiting dads who both suggested that it might be a good idea to keep visitors (like new grandparents) at bay for a day or two when you get back from the hospital. My mum is not really…
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