Parenting Skills

Benefits of an Only Child

I am an only child not by my parents’ choice but life hasn’t been generous in my family and here I am alone. My son is also an only child,  again not completely by choice and still I get to be asked the question ‘are you not giving your son a brother or sister?’. This has raised many dilemmas in my head such as ‘Am I ruining my son?’ Asking people if/why they…
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Parenting Skills

My Ex Rarely Sees the Children

When couples go through divorce, managing time between you and your ex can be stressful, and trying to ensure that your children aren’t affected is equally difficult. However, in some situations the opposite can happen. When one person appears less interested in maintaining a relationship with your children, this situation can cause even greater upset and hurt for both you and your children.
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Parenting Skills

How to cope with being a single parent

“I feel exhausted trying to juggle being a single parent and working at the same time. I don’t feel I am doing well at either.”  Does this sound familiar? Being a single working parent can be very demanding.  The transition from being part of a team managing your time equally, to coping alone can often seem impossible. Being a single parent means that you have to juggle so much…
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Parenting Skills

Divorce Can Be A Positive Experience

Times have changed and the old fashioned view that a marriage will last forever has to fade. Britain has the highest divorce rate in Europe with 42%of first marriages ending in divorce. If we do achieve the fairy tale of happy ever after that is fast becoming the exception rather than the rule. It is often said that divorce is the 2nd most traumatic experience after loss of a loved one. The…
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Parenting Skills

First aid: Preventing Halloween horrors

Like it or not; Halloween has now become a major event and excitement in the UK. Our family have always had great fun and it is really special to dress up, go out in the dark and be rewarded by bucket loads of gooey sweets. However please be careful as Halloween is not without its dangers! Trick or Treat should start with basic ground rules: if someone has a pumpkin and Halloween paraphernalia…
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Parenting Skills

Tiger Parenting? Extra curricular activities: How do you know when they are getting too much?

Mozart in the womb, Baby Einstein DVD’s for newborns and i-pad learning apps for toddlers. From the moment the umbilical cord is cut, today’s parents feel trapped in a never-ending race to ensure their child is the brightest and the best. Now a provocative new book, Taming the Tiger Parent gives parents the confidence to step away from the frenzy and shows them how to protect their…
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Parenting Skills

14 Keywords to understand your partner, your kids & your friends

At the age of 44 I have finally managed to gather pearls of wisdom from wise people to share with my fellow London Mums. I hope you enjoy 14 keywords to understand your partner, your kids and your friends. Keywords to understand your partner Attention – When you fall in love, what you like the most is the attention to details that both partners express to each other. But when you have kids…
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Parenting Skills

Tips on Strengthening Child Self Esteem

The summer holidays are long gone and with that the wonderful if slightly stressful period of having the kids at home all the time.. However the start of a new school term can be a good time to step back and reassess your own sub-conscious beliefs and self talk, which in turn has a tremendous effect…
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Parenting Skills

Exclusive interview with Rugby & Strictly star Austin Healey on living with 5 women & parental control

Enjoy this exclusive interview with ex  England and Lions Rugby Union international and father of four daughters, aged between six and 13 years, Austin Healey, who has recently become the face of a publicity campaign for BT Parental Controls. Q: You have four daughters. How do you keep them in control? I’m definitely outnumbered but I do keep an eye on my daughters. It’s…
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Parenting Skills

Attitude of Gratitude

I have been a widow for a little over a year now.  In the midst of silence and  profound pain, I have come to terms that in his short 39 years, my husband fulfilled his purpose here on Earth.  I also recognize that I am still living and breathing and therefore, I still need to fulfill mine.  As I navigate this untraveled road, I honor who I am every day of my life, as I have never been a…
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