Parenting Skills

Tips to keep teenagers productive and engaged over the festive break

As the Christmas holidays roll around, it’s a magical time of year filled with mince pies, glittering lights, and Mariah Carey on repeat. But for teens facing January mocks and looming exams, it’s also a season that can quickly become a juggling act of family fun and academic prep. So, how do you keep the festive spirit alive while ensuring they stay on top of their schoolwork? London Mums is here to sprinkle some joy – and practical advice – into your holidays. Here are some tried-and-tested tips to make teenagers productive over the holidays, stay fun, and – most importantly – stress-free.

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1 – Don’t let study stress steal Christmas

The thought of tackling revision amidst bauble-hanging and turkey-eating can feel daunting for teens (and parents!). A Forbes study revealed students can lose up to 40% of their learning during school holidays, which adds pressure to what should be a restorative time. But don’t panic! With the right balance, you can help your teen stay on track without turning your home into a revision boot camp.

2 – Team up on a realistic timetable

Santa’s not the only one who needs a plan this Christmas! Sit down with your teen and create a study timetable that works for them. The key is to keep it manageable – short, focused study sessions (think 25-30 minutes) with regular breaks are far more effective than marathon cramming. By mapping out their study goals for the holiday, they’ll have a clear idea of what needs to be done without feeling overwhelmed.

Pro tip: Factor in family events and downtime, so they don’t feel torn between algebra and Auntie Jean’s annual Christmas karaoke.

3 – Embrace Tech for Smart Revision

If your teen rolls their eyes at the sight of a textbook, meet them where they’re at: technology! Interactive tools like Kahoot!, Quizlet, or Seneca Learning make revision feel less like a chore and more like a game. Apps that offer bite-sized lessons or quizzes can help cement tricky concepts in a fun and engaging way. Bonus? You can join in on the action and turn it into a mini family competition.

Challenge: Who knows their GCSE science better: Mum, Dad, or your teen?

4 – Keep brains buzzing with festive fun

Learning doesn’t always have to mean hitting the books. Get creative with festive activities that double as brain workouts. Family Christmas quizzes, Scrabble marathons, or even trivia games about Christmas traditions can keep their minds sharp while sneaking in some holiday cheer.

Extra points: Pick themes related to their subjects – a history-based quiz could make Henry VIII as much a part of Christmas as Home Alone!

 

5 – Build in downtime – It’s not a luxury

Teens work hard all term, and let’s face it – they deserve a proper break too. Constant study is counterproductive, so encourage them to step away from their notes and recharge. Whether it’s a festive movie night, ice skating with friends, or simply sleeping in after a late-night gaming session, downtime is essential for their mental health.

Top tip: Try alternating study sessions with fun activities to keep the balance just right.

 

6 – Reward progress, festive-style

Who doesn’t love a little incentive? Set clear, achievable goals for your teen’s study sessions and pair them with meaningful rewards. Maybe it’s a cosy hot chocolate break after finishing a maths practice paper, or a family outing to the Christmas market for completing a week’s worth of revision. These small gestures help keep motivation high and make studying feel worthwhile.

Idea: Wrap up mini gifts like chocolate coins or stationery supplies to surprise them when they hit key milestones.

6 – Keep calm and Christmas on

At the end of the day, Christmas is about family, joy, and creating memories – not just ticking off to-do lists. The most valuable thing you can give your teen is support. Remind them that it’s okay to take breaks and ask for help if they’re struggling. By fostering a balanced approach, you’ll help them head into January feeling refreshed, prepared, and – dare we say – a little bit festive.

So, pop on a Christmas jumper, pour yourself a mulled wine, and let’s make this holiday one to remember – schoolwork and all! Cheers to a productive, joyful, and stress-free Christmas break from all of us at London Mums!

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Monica Costa founded London Mums in September 2006 after her son Diego’s birth together with a group of mothers who felt the need of meeting up regularly to share the challenges and joys of motherhood in metropolitan and multicultural London. London Mums is the FREE and independent peer support group for mums and mumpreneurs based in London https://new.londonmumsmagazine.com and you can connect on Twitter @londonmums
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